Virginia Foxx Feels Student Loans Are For Losers

I know my readers are of various political beliefs and parties, but be clear about who is making decisions in the party that you associate with as many of these politicians are often out of touch with the struggles of the regular American citizen.

Just last week during a radio interview, Congresswoman Virginia Foxx (who happens to the the CHAIR of the Higher Education and Workforce Training Subcommittee in the house) stated that she has "very little tolerance for people who tell me that they graduated with $200,000 of debt or even $80,000 of debt because there is no reason for that."  She goes on to boast how her education cost her $48,000 and she paid for it out of pocket....in 1968.  Listen to this broad below:

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You "Finishing Last" Had Nothing to Do with You Being "Nice"

Nice guys finish last<---I Abhor this statement.  It honestly makes no sense.

If you feel you are a "nice guy" and you are never securing the woman you are pursing try this statement on for size. 

It has nothing to do with how NICE you are, but EVERYTHING to do with your lack of confidence, how you are low-key scared of her, and how unaggressive you are towards the current situation going on between you two.

I mean what human being in their own right conscious mind would want to be treated like shit over being treated well?  She actually loves the nice qualities about you.  She adores the fact that you’re respectful, thoughtful, intelligent, and have good conversation, but she can’t stand the fact that you are not contributing to the “chemistry” between you all.

Because you are lacking confidence, you are low-key scared of her, and you are unaggressive you are failing.  Women love to feel purused and wanted.  Men are hunters, they are supposed to “hunt for” and actively pursue a woman they are interested in.  When I think back on men who didn’t quite make the cut, they didn’t make the cut for the following:

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Horrible First Date Stories? Share Them!

If you have a hilarious and horrible first date story you'd like to share for an upcoming project I'm working on, please email me at YSUGARCOAT@gmail.com

Your story could appear in a published work. All names will be changed in order to protect your identity.

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Top Complaints Men Have About Weave and My Thoughts On It

As women, we have the luxury of using various different methods for enhancing our appearance and weave is just one of these methods. This isn't my first post about hair weave and I must go on the record and say I have no issues with it under certain circumstances (click here to read The Truth About Hair Weave). However, do you know what men's criticisms of hair weave are? I took the liberty of asking 9 different men of various ages their feelings about hair weave. Then I decided to add my two cents in as well. See below:

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Lessons in Wealth: How Mark Zuckerberg "Made it Rain" On These Hoes

^^^ this is the picture of the man that should come to mind and people should be trying to imitate when they think about stunting. Not the stupid athletes like T.O. who blew $80 million or the rappers rapping about black cards, or Fabolous who made it rain 28k on strippers at Atlanta's very own Diamonds of Atlanta.

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Medical Breakdown of Death by Crucifixion

Happy Easter everyone! While some of my readers may not be religious at all, believe in a different God, or may be more religious than spiritual, I must say, the concept of someone dying for people he has never met is the most selfless act. I have gained more appreciation for this act after I did medical research of what happens during crucifixion and how this ultimately causes the person being crucified to die.

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New Gym Hair Wrap for Black Women

Statistics state that at the rate that obesity is effecting the Black community, by 2020 70% of Black women will be obese. The rise of obesity of Black women may be attributed to the fact that many spend hours and a great deal of money weekly to bi-weekly on their hairstyles. In one rigorous gym work out, a hair style could be ruined by sweating and many Black women do not want to ruin a hair style that they spent a great deal of time and money on.

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What Casual Sex Means About You

Casual sex. I'm sure most people have had it at some point in their lives so I'm not judging. However, past a certain age and making it a habit...not a good look. I'm sick of the term. I have no clue who made it up but the people who embrace it seem to use it a lot in correlation with words like liberation, and phrases like "Women can do it too," "I'm young," and "It's just sex," but realistically...it means you don't value yourself and you are not a hot commodity. This holds the same for women and men. Let me break it down for you all here.

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Do ALL Men Pay for Sex (directly or indirectly)?

I have always said that ALL men pay for sex...whether it's with time or with money because any self respecting woman has those two things as a requirement.

1. She wants to get to know you before she has sex with you----time payment
2. In getting to know her you have to court her---money payment

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Shout Outs!!!

...btw big shout out to Cal Roberts of Calvin Lionel Photography...he is the one responsible for our new Y SUGARCOAT? picture. Hit him up!

Calvin Lionel Photography---Tumblr

Calvin Lionel Photography---FB Page

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